Hey there, innovation champions!
Most innovation efforts don’t fail because teams lack ideas.
They fail because smart, capable people are waiting for permission to be perfect—and by the time they feel ready, the moment has passed.
I’ve watched this pattern stall product launches, kill momentum after conferences, and quietly drain the energy out of teams that leaders genuinely believed were “high potential.”
I know it well, because perfectionism once stopped me cold too.
The Wedding Document I Was Afraid to Make
When I got married the second time, in 2013, I was still running my professional art business.
I ran into a friend at the grocery store who asked if I was going to make my own ketubah—the traditional Jewish marriage contract. These are often elaborate, hand-illuminated works of art.
“Oh, no,” I said quickly. “We’re not having a ketubah.”
She stared at me like I’d just said I wasn’t having a wedding cake.
And honestly, from her perspective, the confusion made sense. I wasn’t just an artist—I was a ketubah artist. These documents were my specialty. Clients hired me specifically for them.
I mumbled something about my fiancé not being Jewish and us not having a rabbi officiate. But even as I said it, I knew those were flimsy excuses. Most of my clients were interfaith couples. That had never been a barrier before.
Standing there between the produce aisle and the cereal, I finally admitted what I’d been avoiding.
I wasn’t opting out because I didn’t want a ketubah.
I was opting out because I was terrified I couldn’t make one that lived up to my own impossible standards.
Perfectionism Doesn’t Look Like Fear—It Looks Like Good Judgment
Here’s the thing about perfectionism: it rarely announces itself as fear.
It shows up as discernment. As “high standards.” As wanting to “do it right.”
That’s why it’s especially dangerous in analytical, high-performing environments. The smarter and more conscientious the team, the easier it is to mistake paralysis for prudence.
That was exactly what was happening to me.
So instead of aiming to make The Perfect Ketubah, I changed the goal entirely.
My only goal was to have fun.
I intentionally removed the pressure for it to be “good.” I allowed it to be a little messy. Even a little crappy. I shared the process publicly, laughed at my missteps, and let myself experiment.
The result?
A ketubah that hangs in our bedroom to this day—and still makes me smile every time I see it.
But more importantly, I relearned something that has shaped every chapter of my work since:
Lowering the stakes doesn’t lower the outcome. It unlocks it.
Why This Keeps Showing Up at Work
Years later, when I began working with corporate teams, I saw the same pattern everywhere.
Engineers who wouldn’t share half-formed ideas in meetings.
Project managers polishing decks instead of testing assumptions.
Leadership teams talking endlessly about innovation while avoiding the small, uncomfortable risks that actually produce it.
When executives tell me, “Our people just aren’t creative types,” I almost always see the opposite.
I see people who care deeply about quality—and have learned that safety lives in certainty.
The problem isn’t a lack of creativity.
It’s an environment that quietly rewards perfection and punishes experimentation.
This Is Why “Play” Is a Serious Business Tool
This is where my Create the Impossible™ framework comes in—not as inspiration, but as infrastructure.
When teams Play Hard, they create psychological safety that allows unfinished thinking to surface.
When they Make Crap, they break the spell of perfectionism and get ideas moving again.
When they Learn Fast, they turn small experiments into real business intelligence instead of waiting months for certainty that never arrives.
None of this is theoretical.
I’ve watched the energy in rooms change in under 90 minutes when leaders give their teams permission to experiment without judgment.
Not permission to be reckless—but permission to start.
What Happened When Analytical Teams Tried This
At the Project Management Institute’s San Francisco Bay Area Chapter Professional Development Day, I stood in front of 125 project and program managers.
No slides. No lecture.
Just structured experiments.
These were professionals trained to minimize risk, control variables, and deliver predictability. Not the audience most people would label “creative.”
And yet, within 45 minutes, the room was buzzing.
One attendee later wrote, “I could actually see the breakthroughs happening—it was electric.”
That same pattern has shown up in my work with teams connected to Google, Meta, Salesforce, NHRMA, and other highly analytical environments.
When the conditions change, the people change with them.
Why My New Book Is Also an Experiment
Which brings me to my new book, Innovation at Work.
While finishing it, a familiar voice showed up in my head:
“How can you publish a book of experiments you haven’t personally facilitated with every possible team?”
It’s a reasonable question—and one I’ve heard echoed by leaders hesitant to try anything that doesn’t come with a decade of internal case studies.
My answer is simple:
The book itself is an experiment.
It’s curated, structured, strategic—and intentionally designed to evolve.
Some of the 52 micro-experiments are ones I’ve facilitated directly. Others synthesize proven practices from innovation, improv, and creative problem-solving disciplines.
What I’m most interested in now is how real teams use them.
What works. What doesn’t. What surprises people.
Because that’s how innovation actually gets better.
A Quick Note About the Book Timeline
If you’ve been following this project for a while, you may have noticed that the launch date has shifted.
That was a deliberate choice.
As the interior design process stretched longer than expected, I had a familiar fork in the road: rush it out to hit an arbitrary date—or practice exactly what I teach.
So I chose the latter.
I slowed the timeline slightly to make sure the book actually does what it’s meant to do: help leaders and teams use it immediately, without friction or apology.
The new timeline is simple:
- Advance Reader Copies go out February 2 (Not on the Launch Team? Join here.)
- Kindle launch: February 13
- Paperback release: March 10
It’s a small delay—and a clear example of what happens when you prioritize learning and quality over false urgency.
An Invitation (No Pitch Required)
If you’re responsible for creating innovation capability—not just a great conference moment—I’ll leave you with this:
Where might perfectionism be quietly slowing your people down?
And what would happen if you lowered the stakes just enough for movement to begin?
Download a preview of Innovation at Work here.
If you’d like a sounding board, you can book an Innovation Strategy Session here.
Or, if you’re simply curious, click here to contact me and tell me where innovation keeps getting stuck in your organization. I read every message.
Sometimes the smallest experiments open the biggest doors.
Next week: More on what actually helps analytical teams move faster when uncertainty is high.










