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Hey there, innovation champions!
“This had better be amazing! Don’t disappoint anybody!”
That was the voice inside my own head for years when I was a professional artist.
Not, ironically, when I was working on a piece for a client. But in those rare moments when I allowed myself to focus on creating for myself.
My standards were so ridiculously high that I didn’t allow room to be human. There was no compassion. I was the opposite of supportive and nurturing to myself.
And guess what happened?
Nothing, that’s what!
Literally. I made nothing for years unless it was on a deadline for a client.
This pattern kept me in a perpetual state of creative drought. I had plenty of ideas, but the internal pressure to make them perfect kept me from even starting. Sound familiar?
The Leadership Connection
What’s fascinating is that the same pattern affects organizations. The pressure for perfection that I experienced individually plays out at the team level when leaders—often unknowingly—create environments where innovation is stifled by impossible expectations.
When I work with teams now, I often see how leadership styles directly impact creative output. High-pressure environments where mistakes are criticized tend to produce safer, less innovative ideas. People naturally protect themselves by only sharing fully-formed concepts that are unlikely to be rejected.
This mirrors exactly what happened in my own creative practice. When my inner critic was too harsh, my creative output plummeted.
The Nurturing Alternative
My own breakthrough came when I developed the first guidepost in my Creative Sandbox Way™: “There is no wrong.” This simple principle changed everything for me. By giving myself permission to create without judgment, I unlocked a flow of ideas that had been dammed up for years.
The same transformation happens in organizations that adopt a more nurturing approach to leadership. When teams feel psychologically safe to share early-stage ideas without fear of criticism, innovation flourishes.
The Science of Supportive Environments
This isn’t just my personal experience—it’s backed by solid research. Google’s Project Aristotle, a comprehensive study of team effectiveness, found that psychological safety was the most important factor in high-performing teams.
According to the research, psychological safety—the belief that you won’t be punished or humiliated for speaking up with ideas, questions, or concerns—is the foundation of innovation in organizations.
Creating the Impossible Through Nurturing Leadership
Let me break this down using my Create the Impossible™ framework:
1. Play Hard
The first element of my framework is “Play Hard”—creating spaces where exploration and experimentation are encouraged without immediate judgment.
In my Creative Sandbox Retreats, I’ve witnessed how quickly people open up creatively when given explicit permission to play. The same principles apply in organizational settings. When leaders create safe spaces for exploration, team members feel free to pursue unconventional ideas.
This might look like:
- Scheduling regular time for experimental thinking
- Creating physical or virtual spaces dedicated to exploration
- Encouraging cross-functional collaboration with no predefined outcomes
2. Make Crap
The second element is “Make Crap”—giving permission to create imperfect first attempts without fear of judgment.
This principle transformed my own creative practice. When I finally embraced the idea that “we need the crap to fertilize the good stuff,” my productivity soared. The same applies to teams—when early, messy ideas are welcomed rather than criticized, innovation accelerates.
In my workshops, I often have participants create “Crappy Doodles”—intentionally bad drawings that help break down perfectionism. The laughter and relief that follows this exercise shows how powerful it is to explicitly give permission for imperfection.
3. Learn Fast
The third element is “Learn Fast”—creating feedback loops that extract value from every experience, especially seeming failures.
In my own creative journey, I learned to see each “failed” piece as a stepping stone rather than a dead end. Each attempt taught me something valuable that informed future work.
Nurturing leaders create this same mindset in their teams by focusing on learning rather than blame when things don’t go as planned.
Practical Steps to Nurturing Innovation
So how can you become a more nurturing leader who creates the conditions for breakthrough innovation? Here are three practical strategies from my work with teams:
1. Shift Your Response Pattern
When someone shares an early-stage idea, consciously pause before responding. Instead of pointing out potential problems, ask questions that help develop the idea further:
- “What excites you most about this concept?”
- “What would make this even better?”
- “Where did this inspiration come from?”
This simple shift signals that you value the creative process, not just polished outcomes.
2. Create Safe Spaces for Imperfection
In my Creative Sandbox Retreats, I establish clear guidelines that create psychological safety. You can do the same by designating specific times, places, or platforms where early, messy ideas are not just permitted but celebrated.
The key is clarity: be explicit about when and where critique is suspended, so team members know when it’s safe to share incomplete thinking.
3. Model Vulnerability Through Your Own Creative Process
In my workshops, I always demonstrate my own creative process, including the messy parts. This vulnerability creates permission for others to be vulnerable too.
Leaders can do the same by sharing their own works-in-progress, being open about creative challenges, and demonstrating that even leaders have messy first drafts.
The Ripple Effect
What’s most powerful about nurturing leadership is how it spreads throughout an organization. When leaders model supportive responses to creativity, team members start doing the same for each other.
This is what I’ve observed in my workshops and retreats—once one person starts sharing vulnerably, others follow. Before long, a culture of collaborative development emerges where ideas are given room to grow, evolve, and sometimes transform into breakthrough innovations.
The same transformation happened in my own creative journey. When I finally learned to be gentler with myself—to create safe spaces for my own messy first attempts—the floodgates opened. The creative drought ended, and ideas began flowing again.
This kind of nurturing environment doesn’t lower standards—it raises possibilities. By creating conditions where people feel safe to explore, experiment, and sometimes fail, you’re actually increasing the likelihood of breakthrough innovation.
Your Challenge
This week, I invite you to try one simple experiment: the next time someone brings you an idea, respond first with curiosity rather than critique. Ask a follow-up question that helps them develop their thinking further instead of immediately pointing out potential issues.
Notice what happens to their energy, their openness, and ultimately, the quality of their ideas. You might be surprised at how this small shift in your leadership approach can spark new creative possibilities.
Remember: innovation doesn’t thrive under pressure for perfection. It flourishes in environments where exploration is encouraged, imperfection is welcomed, and learning is celebrated.
Stay curious, stay playful, and keep creating the impossible!
I’d love to hear from you. What has been your experience with nurturing versus demanding leadership styles? Which have you found leads to more innovation? Click here to share your story!
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